Acknowledge Others and Their Achievements Always

Once upon a time there lived a boy in a small village. His best friend was his little dog (puppy). Wherever he went he used to take the dog. He taught all kinds of tricks to this puppy. The little dog knew how to swim in the water, and how to bring back whatever he threw into the air, and so on. The boy really wanted to make this dog a real hunting dog. Since the boy was living in a cool area, the ducks from the north came there to escape the extreme cold. When these ducks came to that area the people got permits to hunt (shoot) the ducks.

One day the boy went to hunt the ducks with his little puppy. He shot the ducks and one of them fell into the lake. But you know, his little puppy ran across the water and got the duck and came back to him. The little boy could not believe his eyes. Instead of swimming in the water, the dog ran across the water. But who was going to believe it if he told this story? The people would never believe that his dog walked or ran over the water.

One day the boy invited his neighbor farmer who knows all about duck hunting to go with him. While they were together the neighbor farmer shot the ducks and one of them fell into the lake. The boy’s dog ran across the water and brought the duck to them. Then the boy said to the farmer, “Did you see what my dog did? He ran across the water and that is really a miracle!” The man looked at the boy and said, “I know—he can’t swim, right? You didn’t teach him how to swim?”

The purpose of this story is to tell you that some people are like that farmer, never acknowledging other people’s achievements. Some people are interested in focusing on other people’s faults and failures, never finding goodness in others. Where do we stand if we don’t accept other people’s achievements, but publish their faults and destroy their good names? We are in this world to help and encourage others in their achievements, not to destroy them. “Love your neighbor as yourselves”—this is said not by me, but by JESUS.

Thank you and please pray for me while I travel to India this Monday for three weeks. You will be in my thoughts and prayers as always.

Love and prayers,

Fr. Charley

Jesus the Good Shepherd

Our Gospel points us to the truth that no one could care for us as deeply, eternally or passionately as God does. If we trust in ourselves alone, we will eventually find a limit to our knowledge, our strength, or our health. Our Gospel tells us that God and God alone is in whom we place our trust. Today’s second reading tells us that God loves us as His own daughters and sons. In the Gospel Jesus the good shepherd is willing to lay down his life for us. We must believe in that love. We must believe it when we are discouraged and frightened, when we’ve failed or lost our way, when we’re struggling with loss or sickness or bitterness. God will not forget us. God will not abandon us. God loves us. That is our hope and our salvation.

Jesus does not want to push us. He wants to lead us. If his purpose was to force us to the place we need to go, we would be cows and he would be the herdsman. But he says that he is the shepherd and we are the sheep. He calls us sheep because he wants to attract us by the sound of his voice, so that trusting him we might follow him into the Kingdom of God.

Jesus is saying that He is the good shepherd and that He cares for His sheep. He knows us by name. He takes a personal interest in us. He does not see us as someone else’s business, and Jesus tells us that He is willing to lay down His life for his sheep. As He said, “Greater love has no person than to lay down His life for another.”

A young boy at a parish school was given a month to memorize Psalm 23. He was to recite it at a school assembly, with the pastor and all the parents attending. When the big night came, he stood up and began, “The Lord is my shepherd,” and then his mind went blank. The whole crowd was just waiting to hear his next sentence. Poor boy, he completely forgot. Finally, he started again, “The Lord is my Shepherd.” He paused, and then said, “And that is all I need to know.” After a few moments of silence, the whole crowd applauded because the child was right. The Lord is our shepherd, and that is all we need to know.

Yes, my dear brothers and sisters in Jesus Christ, that’s all we need to know and to understand. Jesus is our Good Shepherd who understands us much more than anybody else in this whole world, who loves us more than anyone in this whole entire world.

Love and prayers,

Fr. Charley

The Greatest Virtue Is Prayer!

In the fourth century there lived a Christian monk in the deserts of Egypt and his name was Abba Agathon. All the other monks highly respected him because of his holiness and pious life. Once a very young monk came to him and asked himwhich virtue was the most difficult to practice in life. He answered with a beautiful smile: “Prayer.” He was a man who used to pray continuously for hours and hours every day, so the other monks really could not understand why he would say that or what he meant. Abba, since he was a very humble man, said, “Yes, prayer is the most difficult virtue to be practiced.” Then he explained: “We can do satisfaction with all other virtues, but in the case of prayer it is not like that. It is a struggle to keep the mind and heart fixed on God. In between, many thoughts intrude, and the devil tries his best to turn us away from prayer. That is why I said prayer is the most difficult virtue to practice. Whatever virtue we do, we can accomplish it more or less to satisfaction, but prayer is a battle to keep our minds and hearts fixed on God. And this battle will continue until death.” Abba Agathon was a holy man; if he finds praying very hard, if that is the case with him, what about us, the common people? Prayer will be a great battle as far as we are concerned.

During the War of Independence in India, the young Gandhi wrote in his autobiography: “Prayer is my life. Prayer saved me many times; otherwise, I would have been delirious (a mad man) long ago.” In his public life he had many bitter experiences as well as in his personal life. They, all of them, had driven him nearly crazy or near despair. But he was only able to get out of it through prayer. For him, prayer was his life. It was the important weapon—the weapon he used to wage war against himself and others.

Jesus showed us the best example in His own life. He used to go to lonely places and spent hours and hours with His heavenly Father in prayer. St. Paul tells us that prayer should be the most important weapon in our lives. Jesus tells us to pray without ceasing. Jesus told the parable of the judge and the widow telling us to pray without ceasing. Never ever get weary about prayer. Keep on praying or asking God—He can never abandon you or me. The friend got up and gave bread to his neighbor not because he had pity on him, but because he continuously asked him for it.
We get peace when we unite with God through prayer. St. Paul tells us: “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4: 6-7). Therefore, no matter how intelligent or active or courageous we are, we should not stop praying in our lives. We shall pray without ceasing and let us disturb our God, so that He will provide us all that we need. Ask and you will receive; knock and the door will be opened; search and you will find. Do not be afraid to kneel in prayer before God who can provide everything in our lives.

With gratitude, love and prayers,

Fr. Charley

Divine Mercy Sunday

Today we celebrate the Divine Mercy Sunday for the Second Sunday of Easter. Today’s readings tell us about St. Thomas proclaiming the great truth that Jesus is: “My Lord and My God!” It was the total surrender of St. Thomas before the Good Lord. When Jesus appeared before the Apostles he greeted them saying: “Peace be with you.” Actually, Jesus came into this world to give us peace always, and the Peace which He gives us will never leave us. It is always there for us. The Lord’s Mercy endures forever. We shall pray for His Mercy which gives us peace. We pray the Divine Mercy Prayer today in devotion to the Jesus of Love and Mercy towards us. Try to pray this Divine Mercy Chaplet today and every day using your Rosary beads:

The Our Father/ The Hail Mary/ The Apostle’s Creed

On the large bead before each decade: Eternal Father, I offer You the Body and Blood, Soul and Divinity of Your dearly beloved Son, our Lord Jesus Christ, in atonement for our sins and those of the whole world.

On the 10 small beads of each decade: For the sake of His sorrowful Passion, have mercy on us and on the whole world.

Concluding Doxology (After the fifth decade, pray once, on each of the 3 beads before the crucifix): Holy God, Holy Mighty One, Holy Immortal One, Have mercy on us and on the whole world.

Let us Pray: Eternal God, in whom mercy is endless and the treasury of compassion inexhaustible, look kindly upon us and increase Your mercy in us, that in difficult moments we might not despair nor become despondent, but with great confidence submit ourselves to Your holy will, which is Love and Mercy itself. Amen.

With gratitude, love and prayers,

Fr. Charley

HAPPY AND BLESSED EASTER

My dear brothers and sisters in Jesus Christ,

I am wishing for all of you a holy and blessed Easter season. May our Beloved Savior, Jesus Christ, bless you and all your dear ones with His assured love. Thank you for all you do, all of you. You are the backbone of the parish and our parish family. Without you, we can do nothing. Each person in our parish is a part of the Communion of Saints here on earth, part of the Mystical Body of Christ, using our talents, abilities, and gifts. There are so many to thank for all that has been happening during Lent. The Lectors, Eucharistic Ministers, Choir Members, Cantors and Musicians, Sacristans, Ushers, and Altar Servers who have assisted at daily and weekend Masses. You all deserve a big thank you. To those who have helped every Friday with Stations of the Cross, serving soup and the fish fry and also for Good Friday, I appreciate all you do for our Parish Family. Thank you for your participation in the 40-day, 40 Psalms program; those who worked to telecast them. Thank you to the people who participated in and conducted the Tenebrae, all who take part in the Bible Study on Thursdays, all those who participated in the Bible study “Gift” and the Lenten Mission. Thank you to all who worked hard for the Seder meal, which was a great success. Thank you to the Youth Group for the Stations of the Cross on Palm Sunday after the 8 AM Mass. A special thanks to those who worked behind the scenes to livestream the Liturgy and put it on our webpage and on YouTube. Thanks to The Queen’s Messenger staff for posting on Facebook pictures from events here at church. It helps to remind us of all that is happening in the parish and keeps those still at home in touch. In addition, thank you to all of you who helped to decorate the church during Lent for Masses and for the Easter celebration. Thank you for the teachers who prepared the Catechumens and Confirmation students. And to those responsible for the Easter baskets for the children after each Mass, thank you, and to all who prepared for the Egg Hunt for the children. Again, to all who participated on Palm Sunday, thank you. Thank you to those of you who purchased Easter flowers to decorate the church for Easter Sunday, as the beautiful flowers remind us that the Resurrection Day is a day to celebrate with joy! There are so many others who work behind the scenes that are never seen, but who do the work for the church and for all of us. I’d like to thank our pastoral council, finance committee, parish staff, all the ministry heads and all members of the ministries as well as the members of our parish for all you do to keep our church standing strong as one parish family. The good Lord knows all that you are doing and that you do it for love of Him and His people. There is nothing I can give you, only my prayers for you every day. But the good Lord will give you His reward which cannot be matched by anyone else. This Easter may the Resurrection of our Lord fill your hearts
with joy! And may Christ’s perfect Love dwell in your hearts and fill your souls with hope for all the days to come. Have a blessed and beautiful Easter!

With gratitude, love and prayers,

Fr. Charley

You Are Invited

My dear brothers and sisters in Jesus Christ, Holy Week allows us to walk with Jesus during His Passion, keeping our eyes on Him who loves us, seeking Him instead of the temptations on earth that take our hearts and minds away from Him.

With a prayerful heart, I invite all of you who can to join us at church during Holy Week. Please come and experience God’s great love for us.

Thank you for everything you do for our parish family and me. Please keep one another in your prayers and share your time and talents. Your prayers and service keep our parish family alive, and I thank you so much.

I will be leaving on April 29 to go home for a month to visit my family. Please keep me in your prayers as I travel to India, and know that you will also be in my prayers at the daily Masses.

This Easter season, may you find God in your heart, waiting to welcome you back with joy and peace! Rejoice in the Lord always!

Holy Thursday, March 28, 7 PM—Mass of the Lord’s Supper followed by Adoration of the Most Holy Eucharist until 10 PM.
Good Friday, March 29, 3 PM—Outside Stations of the Cross. At 7 PM—Veneration of the Cross.
Holy Saturday, March 30, No Confessions. At 8 PM—Easter Vigil Mass followed by Breaking of the Lenten Fast.
Easter Sunday, March 31, 8 AM and 10 AM—Holy Mass.

Remember always that the Peace and Joy that we wish one another at Easter is often very easily uttered, but Our Lord Jesus Christ, at a great price, brought it to us. It was at the cost of the great suffering that He endured so selflessly and so full of love for us. As St. John tells us: “God so loved the world that He sent His only begotten Son to save us.”

I hope to see you all in this Holy Week at church.

With gratitude, love and prayers,

Fr. Charley

Rich in the Presence of the Lord Always

A story was told about King Midas in Greek mythology. Midas was the king of Phrygia. Once Midas entertained the god Silenus. As a favor for that, the god Dionysus decided to grant a gift to Midas. When Dionysus asked what gift he wanted, King Midas said: That everything I touch turn to gold. The god did not hesitate and gave the king what he asked for. Midas was greedy for money, and ran and touched everything he saw, which then turned to gold. Then here comes Marigold the king’s one and only daughter. As soon as he saw her, he jumped out of joy and hugged her. At that very moment she herself turned into gold. We can only imagine the depth of the King’s heartache at that moment. The one and only daughter became a piece of gold and nothing else.

In the Bible we hear Jesus say in Luke 12:15: “Avoid greed in all its forms. A man may be wealthy, but his possessions do not guarantee him life.” At the end of the story he says, “This night if I required your soul, then it belongs to whom?” We shall try to be rich in God’s Presence and not ourselves or of the worldly things. We must know that things in the world will never last. It will perish and moths will come and destroy. Ask ourselves: Are we rich in the presence of God or in the worldly things? Especially during this time of Lent and coming closer to Easter, we shall give up all our greed for the things of this world and always try to stand in the presence of God.

How can we become rich in God’s presence? The main way is to help those who are in need of our help. It means to share generously. The Bible says that the generous will be blessed by God always, for they share their possessions with the poor and the needy. At the last judgement also, the King will tell us: “Whatever you did to the least of my brothers, you did to me. Come and inherit the place which is prepared for you by my Father.” Yes, my dear brothers and sisters in Jesus Christ, we shall try to be rich in the presence of the Lord always. Not in material things or the worldly things but of the things up above which are waiting for us in heaven.

God Bless you.

Fr. Charley

Fr. Thomas Arrives from India

Fr. Thomas Kannampilly Anthony will be in our Parish for a few weeks while he acclimates to our country, after which Bishop Raica will assign him to a parish.

In Your Sufferings and Pains Look at Christ Jesus

We must know the healing power of Christ’s redeeming love and victory which he won for us on the cross at Calvary. The Old Testament prophets never ceased to speak of God’s faithfulness and compassion towards those who would turn away from sin and return to God with repentant hearts, trust, and obedience. When Jesus spoke to Nicodemus, he prophesied that his death on the cross would bring healing and forgiveness, a “new birth in the Spirit,” and eternal life to all those who believe in Him. As we know, the prophet Daniel described a vision he received of the Anointed Messiah King who was sent from heaven to rule over the earth. Traditionally, when kings began to reign, they were literally “lifted up” and enthroned above the people. Jesus explains to Nicodemus that he will be recognized as the Anointed King when he is “lifted up” on the cross at Calvary. Jesus points to a key prophetic sign which Moses performed in the wilderness right after the people of Israel were afflicted with poisonous serpents. Scripture tells us that many people died in the wilderness because of their sin of rebellion towards Moses and God. Through Moses’ intervention, God showed mercy to the people and instructed Moses to “make a fiery serpent” mounted on a pole. All who looked upon the serpent would be spared death from the serpent. This miraculous sign was meant to foreshadow and point to the saving work which Jesus would perform to bring healing and salvation to the world.

The bronze serpent which Moses lifted up in the wilderness points to the cross of Christ which defeats sin and death and obtains everlasting life for those who believe in Jesus Christ. God not only frees us from our sins and pardons us, he also fills us with his own divine life.

Yes, my dear brothers and sisters in Jesus Christ, can you just imagine the Love our heavenly Father has towards us? He just doesn’t want to lose any one of us at any time. Before last week we heard that God spared the son of Abraham, but He did not spare His own son! God wants to show us how much he loves each and every one of us by giving up His one and only begotten son for our sake. And the Son took it up with great joy and love. So, whenever we go through the pains and sufferings in our day-to-day lives, look at Christ on the cross and see His love for us and always try to carry our pains and sufferings with great joy and love, becoming one with Christ. He is the one and only answer for everything in this world. Put our trust in Him and put our feet in his shoes and walk together with Him.

Love and prayers,

Fr. Charley